In the context of PADS, what often causes dissonance in the adoptive parent’s experience?

The experience of dissonance in adoptive parents often arises from the gap between their expectations and the reality of parenting a child with a history of trauma or loss, as understood in the context of Perinatal Anxiety and Depression Support (PADS). Many adoptive parents enter into the journey with idealistic views about parenthood, envisioning a seamless transition filled with joy and bonding. However, the reality can be much more complex and challenging.

Adoptive parents may face unexpected emotional and behavioral issues that their child carries from previous experiences. This can lead to frustration and disappointment when the parenting experience does not align with their initial expectations. Additionally, the adoption process itself may come with its own set of emotional hurdles and societal stigmas, further complicating the experience.

In contrast, the joy of parenting and having a supportive community can often provide positivity and connection. While resources are essential, they do not typically create dissonance; rather, they become tools for navigating challenges. Thus, the dissonance primarily emerges when there is a disconnect between what parents anticipated and what they confront on their parenting journey.